I looked at the query and found something unusual. The query has 6 bindings yet there are 7 keys in the binding array. I think this is screwing it up as binding key '4' is incorrect but im not sure why this is happening.

query log output:

array:1 [
  0 => array:3 [
    "query" => "select * from `fm_vip_demographics` where `vip_type_id` = ? and `fm_vip_demographics`.`record_status` = ? and (select count(*) from `fm_vip_demographics` as `self_3005b65b2c6b3cccca2d6b3b119f3570` where `self_3005b65b2c6b3cccca2d6b3b119f3570`.`group_id` = `fm_vip_demographics`.`vip_id` and `vip_type_id` = ? and `fm_vip_demographics`.`record_status` = ? and `relationship_id` in (?, ?)) >= 1"
    "bindings" => array:7 [
      0 => 3
      1 => 1
      2 => 1
      3 => 2
      4 => 1
      5 => 3
      6 => 14
    ]
    "time" => 0.28
  ]
]